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Tips that improve your life in one way or another.
2016.08.28 21:47 EightRoundsRapid Onions are love, onions are life
Onions are a staple of the world over, one of the most versatile foods on the planet and extremely healthy for you. Come, celebrate the wonderful onion.
2012.12.03 20:27 M0D3RNW4RR10R Accidental Racism: When innocent things appear to be racism, though it's totally not intentional
This is where you can post all the accidental racism pictures.
2023.03.26 19:46 LaTesora Any good things to teach my dog for public spaces so he doesn't get stepped on?
I'm always worried about my dog's tail or paws getting stepped on when we are out in places. I'm very conscious of where and how I let him sit/lay/stand, and maintain good situational awareness so I can protect him (and keep him out of the way). Are there any particularly good things I can teach him that will help me to make sure no one steps on him and he's not in anyone's way when we go to (sometimes cramped) places? He behaves wonderfully in public so it's really just a space management/situational awareness thing, I have no behavioral concerns.
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2023.03.26 19:46 JackHordadeCuevos Any alternative to Persona 5 with adult protagonists?
I really enjoyed the entire Yakuza saga and among those titles Yakuza Like a Dragon certainly stands out in gameplay for me. I love turn-based games and including persona 5, but am looking for something more like Yakuza Like a Dragon right now with Persona 5 being the only teenage life game I can remember playing and enough to leave me saturated at the moment like Persona 4. Which I'll try later I guess. But right now he was looking for something like Like a Dragon, if possible more serious and with a more hopeless atmosphere. To be exact, the perfect game in my head right now would be a Persona that seems to narrate the life of the equivalent of the heroes of Darkest Dungeon, but that is only my ideal, with the fact that it is a title with adult protagonists it is enough for me for a recommendation.
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2023.03.26 19:46 MalcomTheVirgin has anyone been through this?
I've been on self improvement for over a year now, at first I didn't tell anyone cause tbh I didn't have much faith in myself, but as I started to see some progress it was very clear this was something I NEEDED to do with my life
Now, the results have been pretty obvious for my friends, they can tell how much confidence I've gain, how my grades are getting higher because I can focus and read much more, and of course how I quit twitteinstagram/facebook/etc
HOWEVER, as much as they can see this is actually a great path, and as much as they admire my effort, no one is willing to do the same!!
I'm starting to think I need to get a new set of friends because I just can't comprehend how nobody wants to work out, no one would ever think of quitting social media, and everyone is just depressed and anxious all the time saying life sucks
Dude! The only reason your life sucks is because you're not doing anything to unsuck it, lmao
Anyways, do any of you struggle with this as well?
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2023.03.26 19:46 grenadegorilla Just had some elders stop by.
They just showed up randomly while I was in the middle of doing some home projects. They haven’t checked on me in years. Their assembly was yesterday. Obviously I didn’t go. But my wife and kids did. They opened with some classic manipulation and fear mongering. “We miss seeing you at the meetings with your family”. And “we just want to see you happy and live forever”They asked something like if I thought the world was getting any better and I said something like well it hasn’t gotten much worse. They didn’t know what to do with that. They talked about a woman that was interviewed on stage at the assembly that came into “the truth” during Covid. She had many health issues. As if that was supposed to be impressive. No sorry it’s not. You just promised her perfect health forever and she believed it. The manipulation tactics and targeting worked perfectly. They made some comment that it’s the people that Jehovah attracts that prove that it’s truly gods organization. So many great people. Sure there’s great people and I feel bad for them. What I wanted to say but didn’t was “yes it has attracted so many narcissists, abusers and pedos!”. After their spiel of guilt and fear and bs. They cut to why they were there. The special talk and memorial is coming up and they would love to see me there with my family. I just smiled and said “we’ll see”. The last time any elder reached out to see how I was doing was right around this same time a few years ago. Right before the memorial. It’s not about me. I’m sure they have a list of inactive ones they’re just driving around and checking off the list. It’s about attendance numbers. Not about me. I think they ended it by saying some like “we know you’re struggling to believe everything but we’re just concerned and miss you”. Now don’t get me wrong, I love both those guys. They’re genuinely good guys. I used to work with one of them. But it didn’t feel genuine. I basically just smiled and nodded through most of it. Because if i said what I was actually thinking it would have landed me a JC. So I just kept my mouth shut. I’m not struggling with any beliefs. I don’t have beliefs I have knowledge and evidence that none of it is real.
Anyway, sorry for the wall of text and rambling incoherent sentences. I’m still processing all of what was said. I was just on a roll with my projects and they came in and pissed me off and ruined my motivation.
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2023.03.26 19:46 cynicalsissy AGAMP vs MEF vs AGP
Just learning about AGAMP and MEF after thinking I was AGP, but still not clear on all the differences. I feel I am more AGAMP because my fantasies and the way I act out these fantasies center around a feminized version of my male self with no biological changes. I am fortunate enough to be considered "passable" and I get super aroused at seeing myself crossdressed and imaging myself in scenarios such as being in public dressed up, at the club, going out on dates and having sex with faceless men. This is where MEF comes in because I considered myself "straight" and meta-attracted, however my fantasies involve getting emasculated. A confident man flirting with me and convincing me to hook up with him, teasing me for being a cd and how pretty I look, or getting "turned out" things like that. However where AGP still lingers is I have a fantasy that a faceless man emasculates and dominates me so much that I start presenting as feminine in my daily life and eventually transition to be his gf.
Would be interested in thoughts or opinions, or to hear if anyone can relate.
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2023.03.26 19:46 PM_ME_ABOUT_DnD My wife just wants to do tons of damage this time around. Help us finish this fighter. Level 13. Magic items recommendations needed as well.
My wife's wizard died. Beholder. Tears were shed.
Now we're planning her replacement. Problem is, we have a kid now that she is often putting to bed, or watching, during gametime while I DM. So she wants to go much simpler, her plan was fighter or barbarian. Pure martial, little to no spells to juggle. She was inspired by my one shot character (Dirty Bugbear Echo Knight/Gloomstalker) and said she wanted something deadly and munchkin-y like that. But not a copy.
So we're thinking going for the classic Crossbow mastesharpshooter pure fighter. I've been running 5e since the start and never had anyone go that route surprisingly.
Our tentative idea so far is:
- Custom lineage to grab one of the necessary feats.
- Max dex
- We picked samurai for all those xbow shots at advantage only to realize that it conflicts heavily in the bonus action department. So now maybe battlemaster?
- Also looking for a fair weapon to give at this level that fits the build. I was thinking a dragons wrath xbow but wow would that escalate things.
- Any other magic item suggestions to round out the build?
What are your thoughts? We also considered going the elven accuracy route, I think there's enough space for the extra feat without hurting the asis too much. Getting the advantage either from trip attack or samurai and such.
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2023.03.26 19:46 Royalcanuk Furnace Fan Speed? Ducted Heat Pump
Hey gang - looking for some expertise as there is very little search results on the topic that I can find via. the Googles.
What speed should the furnace fan be (stage 1 or 2) when utilizing the central ducted heat pump in Heating mode?
I assumed stage 1 for a certain time and then stage 2 if the temperature doesn't change or decreases.
I had my new ASHP and Aux Nat.Gas Furnace installed this week and after being very disappointed in the "smart eco thermostat" which is supposed to switch between Nat.Has and HP depending on Energy Costs (it has incorrectly kept the Nat.Gas firing even at outdoor Temps of 12'C) I have forced the thermostat into HP only to take the Nat.Gas out of the equation.
I have an EmporiaVue2 that monitors the HP and Furnace draft fan and no matter what I do the Furnace stays in Stage 1. I've even purposely cooled the house down to 18'C and then turned the temp setpoint to 22'C to really make the HP work for it (thinking it'd kick to Stage 2 eventually)... no luck. One would think the higher the air handlers speed, the more heat transfer from the coils and therefore the more given up to the house? Maybe I'm way off on this though...
Also of interest, the EmporiaVue2 shows the heat pumps variable speed drive working during start-up but once it hots max (~4000W) it stays there until presumably the thermostat reaches setpoint and then shuts off. No modulating down to try and maintain house Temps. It's acting like my old dump mercury bulb thermostat that I ahd before...
Brand: Napoleon HP: NS18HV24A36 Furnace: WUV-050
The installers said the heat pumps were new tech to them and any questions I have they'd have to pass on to their vendor so I figured I'd ask these questions here in the meantime.
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2023.03.26 19:46 psychomorpho 31M California Silicon Valley - Nothing can cure the senses but the soul so let's go soul searching
“Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.” — Oscar Wilde
There was a scene in the Picture of Dorian Grey where Dorian buries his face in the flowers outside, and Lord Henry tells him that is the way to live life. Rather than flee life, it is always better to reaffirm it. To be in love with one's fate. To engage and sublimate things to serve higher, inspirational ends.
I think that to be cured by the senses means to write. To let your mind loose and just write like there is no tomorrow. I want to do that with someone. I want to write to them like I'm the last person on the planet. To bury myself in their flowery words. To see their soul beat within each word they write. To feel the brightness, the life, the meaning of their messages.
Sometimes I feel like a flower without the sun, longing to belong to something or someone. If I were a flower I'd be a blue flower, because it symbolizes the transcendental striving for the infinite. That's what I live for. I am someone who dreams too much, thinks too much, reads too much. I often go overboard with my desire to do something. I give things my all. I want to be all used up when I die. I want to go out with a bang, not a whimper.
It would be cool if I could meet someone close, someone who shares my wavelength, a kindred soul. I’m from the most expensive city in the US and work in a menial job, yet I look up from the ground to the sky in hopes of finding something worthwhile.
I often feel like I don't belong anywhere, because I'm multiracial and thus culturally rootless. I do the balancing act on the tightrope of culture as I exist within the liminal limbo. Marriage-free, pet-free, and child-free, I lack similarities with those around me. But I think being different can be a blessing too. As Rob Siltanen said:
"Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do."
I'm searching for those who think differently, who see things a whole new way with new eyes. I'm searching for dreamers who think of the impossible, for the daredevils who live dangerously, for the Hyperboreans who pursue the labyrinth’s exit, for the Prometheans who take the fire from the gods, for the Slytherins who seek the forbidden, for the witches who explore the unknown. I'm searching for a deep and dynamic long-term conversation. A conversation that doesn't just die after a few messages. A conversation long enough to last for a lifetime.
Jack Kerouac wrote, "the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes 'Awww!'" Are you desirous of life and all it has to offer, with a fever in your soul for everything, burning like a meteor en route to a beautiful collision? Then tell me all about it. I want to hear your outward urge, your fernweh, your wonderlust, your drive for the unlimited. I want to hear what sets yourself aflame with passion, what lights up your world in every possible color. I want to hear the mad musical of your life-affirming narrative in all of its notes.
I want to tell you about the books I've read, but I also want to hear about your favorite books, your philosophy, your values, and your take on life. I imagine our conversations as long discussions about various books and their themes, grappling with the meaning of life, analyzing philosophical conundrums, studying pop culture, exploring theories of music and art aesthetics, exchanging obscure historical facts, examining political science and psychological theories.
Let’s have an intimate intellectual exchange of ideas. Sharing is caring and knowledge is power, so let’s learn as much as we can because the more we know the better we become. We can trade poems, quotes, songs, lyrics, proverbs, axioms, and other favorite things to live by, as we expand our horizons together. There's nowhere else to go but everywhere as we walk down the corridors of our minds.
In addition to that, I’d like to make a long-term connection with someone. Someone who I can count on, someone who stays for the whole ride, someone who doesn't vanish into thin air. I want to learn about the things in your soul, the things that keep you going, the things you can't put down. To listen about your day, about the interesting things you've known, about your favorite areas to visit. Let's explore who we are together and why we exist on this planet and what the point of life is. Give me deep things to think about and I'll give you the same.
Nietzsche said, “As soon as you feel yourself against me you have ceased to understand my position and consequently my arguments! You have to be the victim of the same passion!” You have to be a victim of the same passions to understand me. So, are you? Are you seeking to undergo the ultimate metamorphosis, from caterpillar to butterfly? Are you longing to live like you’ll dream forever as Oscar Wilde did when he gazed at the stars while in the gutters? Are you full of the unquenchable fire of learning, willing to pursue knowledge at any cost like Odin?
If so, I look forward to meeting you.
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2023.03.26 19:46 nemurenainda Advice for Wrongful Death during Elbow Surgery
In 2020, My healthy 53 year old father slipped and fell and broke his elbow. When he went for surgery to fix his elbow, he died of braindeath during the surgery, and we didn't know he had died until they had sent him to a larger hospital an hour away, where we later had to pull him from life support. It only took minutes before he flatlined. His cause of death on his certificate was listed as Anoxic Brain Injury.
Because Indiana's statute of limitations for malpractice are two years, we cannot continue pursuing malpractice. However, if there was any way to get justice served for how these doctors murdered my father and lied to my mother about it to her face, or get ANY compensation for his death, it would be greatly appreciated.
I can provide greater detail on specifics if needed.
The summary of events:
A couple hours into what was supposed to be a quick surgery, the doctors said his blood pressure dropped significantly and that they were going to wake him up from anesthesia and stabilize him. Several more hours passed, and no word. Then a couple doctors came out to the lobby where my Mom was waiting (during Covid, only one person was allowed to accompany for surgery) and said that his health wasn't great and that he had experienced an MI, or a heart attack. So they were going to send him to a larger hospital an hour away to get their cardiologist to help him. They told my mother that he was still sedated when she watched them load him into the ambulance.
When we arrived at the hospital, we were met at the door and taken to a side room. The doctor explained my father was completely unresponsive: No gag reflex, no eye dilation, no pain response. We were told that they were going to perform a scan to see if there was any chance of recovery but to expect the worst. They found that his brain had hemorrhaged and that his blood had been deprived from his brain for so long that his brain stem had shriveled into the spine.
We had an autopsy performed, and he had no signs of having had a heart attack, had healthy lungs, and his liver had shown signs of a needle puncture, which meant that epinephrine had been administered at some point during the surgery.
We went to 4 different lawyers. We had certified medical records from the hospital that we believe was deliberately missing pieces of what happened during the surgery. My mother had been a nurses aid in a pulmonary unit and said that all the procedures for the oxygen tanks mentioned in the medical records were improper, too little oxygen provided for full anesthesia.
Our first lawyer investigated for about half a year, and had a forensic pathologist sit down and tell us that there was no case to be taken before the board. The only explanation that could be given for his death was LAST Syndrome, which is apparently caused when a risky nerve block, mixed with anesthesia, is administered improperly and travels to the brain and causes a halt in the nervous system. However, the medical records did not show any evidence of where the nerve block was administered, so the lawyer said that by Indiana's medical board, it would not make it to court.
We took the case to other lawyers, one in Carmel, Indiana, another in Louisville, KY, and the last was a lawyer that had a history as a doctor, and who we hoped would be able to get us answers if not justice. However, ultimately even after hiring another specialist in anesthesiology, that lawyer concluded "the doctors did everything they could to save him", wrote a long summary of the research he had done and why he was not taking our case. We lost all hope to find another lawyer who would be willing to take the case, considering how cut and dry that letter was. All the other lawyers before that had given us boilerplate letters and short summaries of what they gave up the case, which gave us hope that another lawyer would be willing to take the case on the grounds that there were still unturned stones.
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2023.03.26 19:45 dustball155 The curse of the Trinity?
I’m not sure if it has been announced yet, on who is in net for today. I find the 3 way trinity we have might be a curse more than a gift. I don’t want it to be, but, I can only see, if we make any exit, how whichever two Rod and the team goes with? Will be heavily criticized. Again? If we exit the playoffs at any point.
Yesterday was the PK of December. A couple mishandled pucks and indecision, but, I feel if Anderson was In net the game would have gone 5-3 the other way. PK has that instinct and I feel lately (before last night) he has just had the puck bounce the wrong way on him.
I open this post to discussion. What do we feel, rather, whom do we feel goes into April? Raanta has an unreal run in the playoffs last year. I would love to see him go again with some help. Surely, you can’t take 3 into April. Does PK go back until someone gets hurt? Is it Anderson because of prestige/name brand? If we go PK and get knocked out? What is the risk that has on his career being so young? Something to be said about having your two last two weeks of the year and being set.
I truly don’t know and would like to hear some perspective. I also truly believe there are no wrong answers, but every answer will have a rebuttal lol
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2023.03.26 19:45 Aggressive_kidd Window problem/question
So when I turn my car off and open the door both windows roll down. I’ve done everything. Looked at the motor and did the reset stuff. No clue what my problem could be. But whenever I am not in the car the windows just stay down.
My question is where is my replay from the key cylinder. And where is my key cylinder. Apparently there is a red clip you can take out and it should stop the problem.
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2023.03.26 19:45 K3R0S3NE My mom sold my soul... I can't die
Hi I'm 13 female and I can't die I know you probably won't believe me but it's worth. Reaching out to someone to know my story I've told everyone including my school friends I even show them and they just tell me to stop fooling around. When I 4-5 I developed asthma my mom didn't know what was wrong with me and she didn't want to take me to a hospital because she says all they want is money. when I had my first asthma attack then she took me to the hospital they told my mom I wasn't gonna make it so she did the first thing that came to her mind and she sold MY soul for ME to stay alive that means no matter how much I pray I'm not going to heaven I know sucks right? So fast forward to 10 years old. I'm playing catch with my cousin in the front yard and some bullets had been fired causing me to get struck my dad took me to the hospital just knowing that I was dead but like 3 minutes later I woke up my dad was in shock causing him to spiral out of control into some trees (he didn't die thankfully) but I did now when the ambulance picked me up all I remember was waking up inside of a black bag I remember screaming loud as I could as I was hearing my mom sob and cry suddenly someone came to my attention and they take me to the hospital. I might've went into surgery but I'm not sure I remember. Then I wake up in my bed room I was wondering if was all just a dream but I see the scar on my chest wear I had gotten shot at and I go to my mom in the living room and she pretend like nothing ever happened I start to question why Im not dead right now I stayed up thinking about it all night and all day. Fast forward to now I was thinking about that time were I had the chance to die twice and I survived I told my friends mom and she told me it was nonsense so I showed her by jumping off her balcony and she said my head went splat. And now this morning I just woke up like none of that ever happened. And another example is I literally stabbed myself in front of my friends during a sleepover and they called the cops and the cops cames and I was there standing with blood all over my shirt and my pants no signs of punctures and I'm was fine now I'm telling this story because I moved out of Florida a month ago and came to Ohio my mom said she wanted a new start and I asked her how I didn't die all those times and she told me what she did to keep me alive but now I have to deal with the tourment of a demon following me ever where I go.......
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2023.03.26 19:45 thegreatgetzby Fear of something happening and I’m not available.
Just like the title says. I have a fear of something catastrophic happening and being unavailable. One of my main responsibilities is being a server admin for a k12 district. We have survived ransomware several years ago and my responsibilities have only grown since then. I know for my own mental health I have to disconnect and leave work at work but it can be difficult sometimes with a looming fear that some hacker out there wants nothing more than to destroy everything that we’ve built. I was just wondering how some of you deal with this type of thing as I know it is common in our field. Be safe out there and take needed time for yourself and your family life. Burnout is real.
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2023.03.26 19:45 LennyBlithe [A4A playing F] Skyrim; The mage and the vampire
Hi! I’m Lenny. I’m a sixteen year old male who’s been roleplaying for about three years. I’m capable of writing 1+ paragraphs, though I usually write between four and six. I match my partner’s length, so you’re free to write however much you want! I only have a couple requirements, being you must be semi-literate to literate (1+ full paragraphs, 2+ preferred) and you must be able to write Serana canonically.
Recently, I bought the Anniversary Edition for The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, and a few creation club creations made me really want to make that Dragonborn into an OC to RP with! This being said, my OC (Elysia) does start off with a couple Creations along with them, that being the unicorn and Arachnia. More information on Elysia will be provided in DMs! Also, I have variations of Elysia as both male and female. All depending on my partner's preference.
Side note, this is NOT a romance RP! I am looking for quite the opposite, actually. I'm open to doing romance, but it would need to REALLY make sense and also be really slow. This being said, I would much rather Serana and Elysia have a twin-sibling like bond. Able to banter with each other, but when it comes down to it, they will stand back to back to keep the other one safe.
If the plot posted below interests you, feel free to DM me!
Also, I would highly prefer for the RP to take place on Discord. I just am rarely on Reddit until I get an email saying that someone messaged me, so it makes replies exceedingly slow.
The journey was over. First, together, they slayed Harkon, the dreaded vampire and father of Serana. Then, the World-Eater: Alduin. Then, Miraak, the other Dragonborn. Skyrim was safe. Elysia filled their role has the Dragonborn, the protector of Skyrim, even if they did refuse to become the high ruler, that honor went to Jarl Elisif. Everything was fine. Nobody would dare threaten Skyrim's peace as long as Elysia was still alive and fighting. Skyrim experienced a time of peace. Bandits and other petty thieves ceased to exist out of fear of hearing the mythical shouts.
Serana and Elysia parted ways. Elysia left her to fulfill their role as the protector, while Serana dealt with her own personal issues. Maybe they would cross paths again, some day. Maybe old age would catch up with Elysia before they got the chance. Who knew? What the future had in store was untold. Vampires were done for, leaving Fort Dawnguard useless. Only Isran remained, and possibly Serana. With Harkon gone, it's just as likely that she claimed Castle Volkihar for herself. On the other hand, Elysia sought to perfect their skills in the arcane, and learn as many shouts as he could. Their lust for knowledge was a savior sometimes, but could just as well be their downfall.
Five short years passed. Five years after Alduin fell, something happened. All of Tamriel was plunged into war. A battle for who would claim themselves as the ruler of Tamriel. Jarl Elisif tried her best to keep Skyrim safe from the war, but no matter how hard she tried, it was impossible to keep the inhabitants safe from the Earth-shaking battles of the war. Skyrim had to remain neutral. Anybody who tried and disturb her peace would be met with the Dragonborn.
Serana was safe from the war. Her home was too far off most of Skyrim's maps, so she was safe. Nobody had any reason to attack and if they did, she was far too powerful to be taken down. She lived a peaceful life. Until something happened. In the midst of the war, Serana saw something.
The ear-piercing screeches of thousands times thousands of souls. The very barriers of the plane she stood in weakened. All of humanity trembling and bowing before a figure that wasn't quite visible yet. Everyone on the world of Nirn, bowing. Soaked in blood, with tears streaming down their faces. Nords, Elves, Argonians. Men, women, children. The figure they bowed before slowly came into the picture. It was a face. A face she was all too familiar with. A face that would immediately cause her to break down. The face of the Daedric Prince who ruined her life. Who forced her and her mother into becoming a vampire.
He was back. He was going to use the war to destroy the barrier between Tamriel and Oblivion. She was the only one who knew what was happening. She couldn't fight him alone. She couldn't even look at him without feeling sick to her stomach. What could she do? Was there anything she could do? The panic set in as she felt sick to her stomach. But when she settled down, she realized. There was something she could do. There was somebody she could go to.
"Then we'll fight. But not for Skyrim. Not for Tamriel. Not even for Nirn. For you, Serana. He will fall in your name."
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2023.03.26 19:45 throwawaycreepyhelp1 How to report creepy workers of chains whilst keeping anonymity??
So I've posted on 1 or 2 other subs about this in detail, but to summarise...Theres a worker at my local grocery shop (only local one for ages, so I cant just switch) who makes me really uncomfortable. I dont mind saying hi to people but sometimes I just want to be left alone!
It's been this way for YEARS and I've thought about reporting/complaining about his behaviour because it hasn't changed but the form requires a phone number, name etc and I'm not sure what his role is (manager etc) so I cant rule out he wouldn't see my personal details. Someone's told me they think he has a learning disability and I understand that he might not acknowledge what hes doing is creepy but its still not ok (I'm a grown ass woman and this freaks me out). For personal and safety reasons I haven't confronted him bc I don't know how he would react as I barely know him. He has this aura about him too...I just hate how the interactions make me feel. Its not fair.
I dont want to get him fired as he technically hasnt done anything wrong but basically want to put in a request for workers to leave shoppers be and not hovelurk around them or follow them because Im so uncomfortable... (sometimes I just want to buy my food and leave and have some quiet time) just a general request without revealing who I am and I dont know what to do - is there another system or way I could do this in the uk without it doing that??
Im also not the only person whose felt this way according to who I've spoken too.
Its a chain brand so I'm not sure if that makes any different. Any suggestions?
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2023.03.26 19:45 greenpickleslut MESSIEST MESS: Cheating on my partner of 2 years with my lover who is in a poly relationship with me & 1 other. TWIST: My lover doesn't know i'm still dating my partner
I have been with my partner for almost 2 years now. My partner is younger than me by about 5 years. At first this didn't seem like a huge issue for us. We hit it off immediately, and both fell head over heels for each other.
We moved pretty fast in our relationship. As soon as we started dating they were at my house every night, & moved in only 4 months later. It worked at the time. They worked on the road & were gone months at a time. This worked for me. I'm an independent introverted person, so being home alone with my dog was not a problem. I LOVED IT! It worked so well for us.
After my partner was laid off from their job, they moved home. They went thru a couple of jobs in 2 months, & I didn't think anything of it. They went back on the road & things were great. We were happy together. Then they left one job for another after only being their for a month, & didn't discuss it with me. This rubbed me the wrong way, because they made the decision without me. After only being at that job they decided they hated it and quit out of the blue. Telling me they had another job lined up in a few weeks.
After they moved home & a few weeks went by without a job, I asked them about it. They said that they didn't have a job & they wanted to take a break from work. No big deal. Bills were paid. After 3 months, I finally started applying them for jobs. I was fed up with them not working & just hanging around at home playing video games on the daily. I brought up my concerns but they just kept brushing the concerns off. We started fighting EVERY. DAY. It was exhausting. They wanted to go to truck driving school when they moved home originally but never put in any effort to actually apply. I finally had to apply for these as well. They were never accepted due to constantly quitting their jobs, & job length. So they took a job working at a local retail store. Mind you this is his 7th job in just a year & half of us being together. They've always had money tho, so I didn't push it.
After a while I just stopped fighting back. I started putting in the same effort they gave me. I started focusing on myself. I started putting in effort to get healthy, & get my mind in a better space. This pissed them off because I wasn't giving them the attention they wanted anymore. I didn't entertain the fighting I would just say ok & leave.
I lost 50lbs just focusing on myself, & other people started to notice. Men started reaching out to me and telling me how good I looked. It was a confidence boost I wasn't getting at home. I brought this up & still nothing. I'm not proud of this, but I created a Tinder to seek the attention I wasn't getting at home. At first it was 'harmless' flirting (I'm aware it's never harmless). Until I matched with someone from my past.
I started talking to this person & we immediately picked up where we left off. It felt like no time at all had passed, and I started getting all the attention I wasn't getting at home. I started talking to this person daily, and all of the feelings come flooding back for both of us.
This is where it really gets MESSY. As if they weren't messy enough. This person is aware that I live with my partner, but they think that we're currently broken up and just riding out a lease. They don't know that we're actually still together. To top it off, they're in a relationship. Their partner knows about me & knows that we are seeing each other. I have met them & they are completely open about everything.
Once I met up with this other person, I basically told my partner I wanted to break up and they refused. I brought up all the things that never changed, and they said they would change. The problem is I wanted change a LONG time ago, not now. I asked for it a while & got nothing. Only when I said I was done did they decide they wanted to change. I feel like I'm being love bombed now & it's too much. I've pulled away, I don't want to be in this relationship, but I don't feel like I have a choice considering I've already told them I want out & nothing. They're very close with my family especially my Mom. They don't really have a relationship with their parents. Which makes me feel awful for doing this because they have nobody but my mother. They don't have friends & that shouldn't be my problem. The problem is I have severe anxiety & depression, and I feel like leaving a person with their first real relationship breakup alone is awful. They've noticed me pulling away, & think something is up which it is. I'm basically in a relationship with this person from my past, we've even had sex. Yes, i'm aware i'm a horrible person.
I just feel all this guilt, and don't know how to handle it. I love my current partner, but i'm not in love with them anymore. I want out. The thought of even being single is better than being in this relationship. I want to be with this new person, & I don't want to lie to them anymore.
I'M CHEATING ON MY PARTNER WITH SOMEONE IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP AND THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER99/300
I'm lying to everyone involved & just don't know where to go from here. I'm not happy.
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2023.03.26 19:45 JoyfullyFavorable My partner (21M) LL and I have been struggling with a DB TW:SA
hi guys so ive been struggling with having sex with my partner (together for 2 years) ever since we moved in together (in our own apartment) and im not sure what to do. when we first started dating we had sex every day then every other day, and i knew eventually it would be less, however its been more than less than i would like (especially since we are still young). I moved in with him about 6 months into our relationship while i was still in high school (he was still at home as well doing community college). And during that time we still had sex every day. however, now we have sex every 3 weeks, which i believe is pretty low compared to average (especially for our age).
i deal with a lot of emotional issues regarding sex, as i have been SA’d before. i only feel pretty when im looked like an object to him when he is having sex with me. this in itself is a problem i know i need to seek therapy for, however it is worsening my mental because of how less we do it. i have gained weight recently as well and to me it feels like he doesnt want me anymore and doesnt think im sexy etc. ive had countless talks about not having sex and how it makes me feel but nothing ever changes. ive been feeling severely depressed and have been having bpd meltdowns every week about it. i feel unloved and unwanted. im looking up procedures i can get done to look more feminine or better in general in hopes it will make him want me more. i also should note that he has depression so his libido is a lot lower than mine. A month or two ago i found out that he was masturbating to reddit pages of girls that did not look like me at all. I told him that i went through his phone and expressed how disgusted i felt about myself and how much it hurt me to know that he was masturbating to these girls, but yet not having sex with me for weeks. he told me he would stop masturbating, which i don’t even know if he has really because he deleted his reddit and only has anonymous browsing and his main acct on his phone. Its been about 3 weeks since we last had sex and i don’t understand how he doesnt want it at least once during that time. I dont mean to sound like a bitch saying that, but I genuinely dont know how its possible when he used to masturbate at least 3 times a week. I think its also important to note here that when i would have talks about why he doesnt have sex with me he would say one of the reasons is because im messy. I have clinical depression and ADHD as well that makes it harder to clean, which sounds like an excuse but its hard to be able to clean up stuff when i just am unable to do anything some times. Ive been working on it, especially since i also recently got prescribed medicine for my ADHD (which helps me not forget to clean up after myself) and mood stabilizers. However, the things that im “messy” about are simple things like forgetting to put a dish away or leaving my school clothes on my side of the bed, stuff that is not that big of a deal (at least to me). Sometimes, because we have a DB it is harder for me to make our space stay clean because i have more meltdowns during the week, thus becoming less clean (more depression = less chance i will be able to clean). Its hard because ive been trying to make an active effort to be able to fix my own problems of being messy, yet nothing has changed in regards to our relationship and our DB. To me i feel like i would be in a better mood and overall better about doing things like cleaning if i felt like i was loved by having sex. But perhaps he feels the same about me cleaning.
i dont want to force him to have sex with me, however it feels like a lot of my needs are not being met and i do not want to leave him because i love him too much. i dont know what to do because ive tried to talk to him but nothing is changing. I know im only 19 and i should go out and see the world, but having bpd makes me feel like this man is the only man that i will ever love and i truly do think he is my soulmate and perhaps we can get over this part in our relationship to be happy. Besides having sex, he is my perfect guy and i love him dearly, before when we were having sex every day it was like i had met my exact person i needed, but now it feels off. I feel so stupid saying that but thats just how my relationship feels to me.
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2023.03.26 19:44 No-Computer-4642 [M4A] Looking for long-term roleplay partner for the genres of fantasy/romance/SOL (maybe some fandoms)
Hi, it's pretty much what it says in the title :) I'm usually a fan of original storylines, but i'm okay with a few fandoms (mainly Persona and the Fate series, but others could be considered, if i'm familiar with the source material). I'm usually a big fan of action/fantasy oriented roleplays, but I wouldn't mind throwing in romance, drama, or SOL depending on what the story requires.
I usually write 2-3 paragraphs per message depending on my mood, but I can write out more If desired by my partner. I look for someone just as passionate as I am in worldbuing and character developing, and prefer them to be close to my age (so, please, no minors). I also am not available for most of the day, so be ok with some time between messages. I'm okay with some cliche storylines and prompts, but honestly, the weirder and unique, the better.
Here are some of my ideas we could discuss for a possible rp:
- Romance oriented roleplay between creator deities (prefered MxF) - Two gods responsible for creating the universe together clash their ideologies for what an ideal world would be. They try to create some sort of harmony in their conflicting universe.
- Small-town paranormal story. (M/GMxA) - Your tipical small town mystery solving, except this town is filled to the brim with magical beings and supernatural happenings. Your character could be an outsider looking to solve the mysteries behind that city, while dealing with paranormal events left and right.
- Holy Grail War set in the Fate Universe (prefered GM/ M4F) - pretty explanatory. Honestly I don't mind someone unfamiliar with the Fate series, since I don't plan to follow canon that much. It's pretty much the dynamics of "7 heroes of past fighting for a wish-granting grail" that interests me.
- Persona 5 romance based on around Maruki X Kawakami. Mostly fluffly stuff and two broken adults trying to mend each other. Could venture into angst and action considering the content of the series.
Feel free to send a PM or a chat if any of this interests you.
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2023.03.26 19:44 Moveifyouwant I think he is emotionally unavailable.
I recently started talking to this guy online and I quickly started to develop feelings for him. He eventually picked this up but when he told me that he has noticed that I am into him. I quickly denied this. However, after 2 days, I eventually admitted to him. It took a lot from me to admit to him.
Fast forward to now (it's been 3 weeks or so), it has dawned on me more and more that he is quite emotionally unavailable. He told me that he has never been in a good relationship and that his last relationship destroyed him. I was very understanding and tried to reassure him that I am not like any of his ex's.
Just a bit about me. I'm 27 years old, never been in a relationship, never kissed a guy either. I have always been a self-determined individual who knows what she wants and won't settle for anything other than what I aim for. I'm on a good path in my life and I am working on my second masters degree. I have always been a psychology major and I will pursue that on a doctorate level, eventually. Thus, for the most part, I am very big on self-refections, growth, encouragement, motivation, dreaming big (with realistic goals) etc. I'm a big believer in nothing is impossible.
However, this guy I am talking to is quite the opposite of me. He comes from a bad background and dysfunctional family, he hasn't had the best of relationships and has had bad people in his life but he is quite a great person. He was taken aback when I told him how I felt. I'm a very non-judgemental person who likes to see people for who they are and how they have grown and learnt from their life mistakes or past. So I never put his past life before him and I have never made him feel lesser than me.
Unfortunately, I have come to realize that he is possibly just emotionally unavailable even though he says that he is ready to move on from his past relationship. I find myself missing him and thinking about him more than he probably thinks about me. He doesn't text me back or call me until late in the evening. When he does text or call its only after I told him how I am not happy about the inconsistencies.
I have told him what I want from him or expect from him but he just holds back and doesn't ever respond to me in a straight forward manner. Instead, he just tries but puts less effort and starts feeling like I say the same thing over and over. Which is the lack of consistency in communication. I decided to leave him alone and tell him that I will no longer bother him because in all fairness we are not in any relationship (but we are trying to build a foundation and get to know each other better, what we want, don't want, etc). I just decided that it's no use pushing for something that I am not getting because it only hurts me. We are meeting in person for the first time next week Wednesday. I decided to go and just try and see how he is in person but emotionally I am starting to put my guard up.
I don't know why I am writing this. I guess I just need to vent. If you made it this far. Thank you for hearing me out. I have no one else to talk to. So, thank you!
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2023.03.26 19:44 Gangoon If we're never getting ranked traditional draft can we at least regulate going first in ranked draft?
It's insanely frustrating to lose on the draw to an aggro deck curving out. Normally this is offset by having more games in the match. But instead you just lose on turn 5 with little gameplay and its over. There's no reason that you can't go first in alternating games during your run. Having to play multiple games in a row on the draw is unfair AND unfun. If we're going to keep pretending best of one magic is a balanced and competitive format then at least try and improve it.
And before someone tells me "In the long run it evens out" that still doesn't mean I should go first 5/7 games in one run and then go first 2/6 games in my next run.
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